Alot of people argue that looks aren't everything. I completely agree with this statement, but what irks me most is that few people argue that personality isn't everything. As weird as it may sound I strongly feel that sexual attraction is key when thinking about pursuing a relationship with someone.
Having personally dated a guy because we clicked on a mental and personal level, I can safely say that at some point you realize things are missing. The spark isn't there. It is like building a relationship on half solid and half hollow ground. At some point the one side will cave in and everything will be broken.
Sexual attraction can develop, certain features become attractive or stand out, but its not the same as what I'm referring to. I'm talking about the feeling of seeing a stranger across a room and having that connection. That thing that comes over when meeting someone new; Where within a few minutes you find yourself attracted to them and you immediately start hoping they too are attracted to you.
Relationships are like chemistry: there are many elements at play. So daters be warned, looks aren't everything and neither are personality and that intriguing mental connection.
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